To be optimistic

friends in my age are all OT full-timers without any choices since the competition arises rapidly nowadays. singles seem to be admired by couples because the less economic pressure and more time to be devoted to their career development and networks. people in our age or older are afraid of early retirment. the value of "sucessful life" is driven by wealth, fame, and power in most people's mindsets. unbalance social value creates individual insecurity, family issues and social speculative climates.
the fact is that we are all progressing. the more innovations, the more changes.
our life is like a train heading toward the final stop from the first then vice versa. you could choose to be a passenger enjoying all beautiful views during the journey. you could choose to be the conductor making sure all passengers in pleasurant modes. or you could choose to be the driver to head all matters.
no matter what reality you are facing or what role you are eligible to be, to be optimistic help integrate yourself and reserve a step back for others.